Stepping away from violence. How to deal with confrontations
The family strife, confrontations, verbal wars or even wars start from the inability to support oneself, by facing it clearly. Some details were not discussed properly or had been dismissed on purpose or not really. Consequently, people end up in surprises which lead to confrontations. There is no force of persuasion than a power of demonstration of full viability. Same applies to government conflicts, when one cannot support itself, but have enough ‘guts’ to present ones’ demands to another.
Blissed are those who can live without demands, indeed. If one dares to live without demands, it should be able to provide itself enough with living expenses. If same formation believes it can ‘persuade’ or exploit others to do something without their approval, there is a serious mistake performed. Analyzing the steps ahead of a companion in advance is a smart choice. Because, all confrontations and disputes end sooner or later. After that comes up the dialog. The power of persuasion lies on the hidden opportunities, that are ready to offer something valuable to an opponent. Once it worked, it is a good sign to continue the process of negotiation. There is no need to be afraid of something to offer. When it is said, the whole unnecessary actions recede into the background.
Through the strife and confrontations goes exchange of energies, experience, knowledge which are not always positive. However, it is always encouraging to find somebody else. Through seeking people let cosmos to help them achieve what they really want, and what they are capable of. Seeking means living the life in full. There is no need for confrontations.